Hi, it's a beautiful day to begin with...
and I find it relaxing and you will be relaxed too once you read this useful ADVICE.
Want to win back the heart, attention and mind of your ex
as quickly as possible?
Imagine having these answers and techniques at your fingertips...Imagine
how much better you will feel just having a proven plan...
And most importantly...
Imagine how you will feel when your ex opens up to you...starts
talking with you again...and you now know you are on the right path!
You will feel more relax and highly motivated to live, because you have by your side, someone that you really have faith in, deeply and madly in love and someone that you truly deserved.
Okay...
Then I need to tell you that many has successfully get their loved
ones back because of a few very common mistakes they
AVOID...and mistakes that you too should avoid.
If you are making these mistakes...This may be one of the
most important messages that you ever read!
Let's talk about some MAJOR mistakes and how you can
avoid them and skyrocket your chances of getting your
ex boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband back into your life.
Here's a few of the most common mistakes:
1. Calling to soon after the break up
2. Professing your undying love over and over.
3. Telling your ex they are making a huge mistake.
4. Forcing your ex to communicate with you through
email, IM or by phone.
5. Telling your ex how depressed, sad or lonely you have
been since the break up.
6. Then if you do happen to get their attention, bringing
up the break up and past arguments and squabbles.
7. Apologizing over and over and over again.
Are you making some or maybe all of these mistakes?
If you are, you must undo it to increase your chances of getting
back together.
By now, you already know what to undo and many has successfully undo it. And I'm pleased to let you know that you can be like those people and undo those things without any problems.
Here's the ways to avoid them.
Now, I know these all seem like the natural thing to do.
And I am not coming down on you at all.
What I am trying to get across is there is a much more effective
way to win back your lovers attention, mind and heart.
But...you see...
Your situation is different from someone elses...right?
The good news is there is a solution...there are answers and ways
that have worked for hundreds of others and
can work for you too...and fast...
-Many discovered their attractiveness went from a zero to a 9 or 10.
-Many are no longer confused about what to do.
-many already know HOW and WHEN to contact their ex and WHAT to say.
-Many times soon after these principles are applied their ex are
BEGGING to take them back.
- Many also found out that it is the easiest and best way to get their ex talking with them again.
-Has helped many to deal with people that are "scared" or "afraid" of commitment.
-Exactly what to do if your man or woman is with someone else
right now...it is NOT an impossible situation...in fact your
odds are 7 in 10 in getting them back...if you know how to handle
it correctly.
-And what to do if you have already made some or all of
the above mistakes.
These are the ANSWERS you are searching for and they are
in...a wonderfully effective book called:
"The Magic Of Making Up"
Thanks for listening,
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Thursday, October 14, 2010
How To Tell If Your Ex Wants You Back?
Hey there, wassup?
K. Helmi here...
K. Helmi here...
Ok... this one is particularly if you already taken the steps in playing hard to get.
So how should you know that your ex is responding to your game plan? Below are some of the indications that you can easily recognized since you were together once before.
Fidgeting
You can easily spot this when you are in a group of people which includes him. He will move or act differently from people around you. For instance, if he is holding a pen you will see him playing with his pen quite often. Girl could be playing with their hair quite often than any other time. While you are checking on your ex to look for this sign, make sure you doesn't look so obvious because if you do, the game is turning against you.
Checking on you through friends
He or she would say hi to you indirectly.The reason is pretty obvious, both of you had a breakup and it kind of prevented your ex to communicate to you openly.
Staring at you and...
turns his head away if you ever noticed. Also, if you are in a group of people with him included, see if he is playing around(fidgeting) or giving you a glance even when you were looking at him. It's good to have your shades on.
So how should you know that your ex is responding to your game plan? Below are some of the indications that you can easily recognized since you were together once before.
Fidgeting
You can easily spot this when you are in a group of people which includes him. He will move or act differently from people around you. For instance, if he is holding a pen you will see him playing with his pen quite often. Girl could be playing with their hair quite often than any other time. While you are checking on your ex to look for this sign, make sure you doesn't look so obvious because if you do, the game is turning against you.
Checking on you through friends
He or she would say hi to you indirectly.The reason is pretty obvious, both of you had a breakup and it kind of prevented your ex to communicate to you openly.
Staring at you and...
turns his head away if you ever noticed. Also, if you are in a group of people with him included, see if he is playing around(fidgeting) or giving you a glance even when you were looking at him. It's good to have your shades on.
Tries to make contact with you
Your ex may "accidentally" bump into you, if it happens more than once, it's pretty obvious. Also your ex might leave you a missed call on your cell or text you.
Your ex may "accidentally" bump into you, if it happens more than once, it's pretty obvious. Also your ex might leave you a missed call on your cell or text you.
Talk dirty
If both of you were used to talk dirty, then he might try it again.
If both of you were used to talk dirty, then he might try it again.
Sweet names
Baby, honey, gorgeous among others... just to remind you how sweet your ex was.
Baby, honey, gorgeous among others... just to remind you how sweet your ex was.
Jealous
Your ex act slightly jealous when you're talking to or about other person that might replace your ex... probably they would want to dig down about that other "person".
Wish you on a special day
Your birthday, Valentine's and New Year and many others that you had together back then.
Remember the old days?
Since you were once together, remember when the first time your ex fell for you? Likely they'll act the same way.
There are many ways an ex can show their interest to reconcile, only you can spot your ex's obvious... it's the key to your next move.
Get your ex back from there.
Your ex act slightly jealous when you're talking to or about other person that might replace your ex... probably they would want to dig down about that other "person".
Wish you on a special day
Your birthday, Valentine's and New Year and many others that you had together back then.
Remember the old days?
Since you were once together, remember when the first time your ex fell for you? Likely they'll act the same way.
There are many ways an ex can show their interest to reconcile, only you can spot your ex's obvious... it's the key to your next move.
Get your ex back from there.
Please be advised that sometimes when an ex shows interest again after a break up, it could only be a game, especially if he/she is the kind of guy that knows their ways to your heart or anyone's heart.
They may pretend to pay attention to you simply to get your attention, without actually intending to get you back. And worst of all they may use this as an excuse to get revenge. This is why it is important for you not to pull the trigger too soon, and why you should focus on reading into the situations before acting on it.
Read into situations at magic of making up.
Read into situations at magic of making up.
The are many ways for you to capitalized to get your ex back. And it is very important for you to understand what you are doing that can influence your ex to take you back.
Happy for ya'll,
Counter Intuitive Method
Hey there, hope it's a good day for you to start.
I sure hope you are hangin' tough despite your breakup. You are not alone... many of us experienced it at some point of our lives... but at the same time couples also reunites everyday regardless the situation.
(Even an ex con can get to his ex back... nothing should stop you getting your ex back as well)
Most people find themselves asking "What should they do to get their ex back" following a breakup. They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back. This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. We(men & women) become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it is only harmful to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.
It is always good to remind you that you cannot force anyone to fall in love with you or fall back in love with you, however you always can influence the one you like to fall for you. The key is influencing.
This is where doing things counter intuitively is highly effective.
The first main strategy to answer the question about "what should you do to get your ex back" is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and forget about recent turmoil in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people. Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.
The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.
Do you still want to get back together with your ex? Or are you ready to move on? Act accordingly. If you still want to get back together, it might be time to figure out how he/she is feeling about you.
Getting your ex back can truly make you happy.
Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting your ex back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not simply beg your ex to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be emotional.
Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. If you have spent enough time apart, your ex is probably missing you as badly as you are. Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and this is just to show your ex that you are doing fine after the breakup. This will inspire your ex to really rethink things.
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when it will become apparent. Pay attention to the indication of interest that your ex unknowingly show you. Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out what you can do to rekindle old the romance. Just take things slow and play them cool and you should be fine.
Couples Reunite Everyday Under Any Circumstances. Even Ex convicts can get back to their girlfriends and wives, what's stopping you then? You too can win back your ex.
Regards,
Friday, October 8, 2010
The Energy Around Us And How To Handle It
Good day to you! :-)
Everything you see in this world is made up of energy at
their core; we are inter-connected you see...
Thus, for all of us, we will often get all the good or the bad
things coming back to ourselves - it's just the way we handle things that could make things better or worse :)
And now, let us take a look at some of the challenges that we face in a relationship, how we could at least handle it with ease :)
Are you ruining your Relationship?
Whether we realize it or not, most of us would say NO way we are ruining our relationship, right?
While most of us would like to think that our failed relationships were caused by someone else, that isn't necessarily the case. Taking the initiative to consider what you might have done to contribute to the downfall is a
great first step towards actually repairing a relationship. Blame doesn't really help fix a relationship, but taking responsibility for your actions does.
1) Are you always right?
One of the biggest problems in a problem relationship is the idea that one person is right and the other is wrong. Are you the one that always insists that you are right? If so, you might be harming your relationship more than helping it. By trying to create a right and a wrong party, you are increasing the split in your relationship and probably causing more animosity from your partner.
Solution:
The next time you want to point out that you are right about something in an argument or a discussion, stop and take a deep breath at least 3 times. This will slow down your brain and take the focus off the moment at hand. In most cases, you will see that saying that you were right probably isn't going to add to the situation. How would you feel if your partner did the same to you?
2) Are you unable to let go of the past?
Many women have a terrific memory that can retain old incidents for long periods of time. However, when you
constantly bring up old arguments and issues, you aren't really solving the problem that you are having in the
present. You are distracting the discussion from the real issue and hindering any progress.
Solution:
When you feel that you want to bring up something from the past, preface what you are saying with, "I'm not sure if this is relevant or not, but let me say this aloud." This will show how you are thinking about things, but will also admit that you might not be on the correct thought process. After saying what you want to say, then you can say aloud that it's really not relevant, so it's not something that needs discussion.
3) Are you loud when you want to prove your point?
Being louder doesn't necessarily make you right. When you raise your voice, you tend to forget about the words that you are trying to relate or your partner and your partner may just decide to not listen. Whatever you say might be dismissed as too emotional, rather than anything that might help the argument or discussion at hand.
Solution:
There are several things that you can do when you start to feel your volume rise. Many couples like to give each other signals when this is starting to happen, while others find that stopping and breathing a few deep breaths can stop the increased yelling. You can also leave the room for a moment to collect yourself and then try to lower your voice when you return.
4) Do you accuse your partner of not doing things right?
It's really easy to turn every wrongdoing into someone else's fault when you're upset or hurt. However, when you
begin to blame your partner for everything that is wrong, you are not taking responsibility for your own role in the
argument or issue. Accusing someone when you're upset is usually an accusation without merit.
Solution:
It's best to take your focus off of the person that you are talking with and place it more on the issue at hand. When you start to look at arguments in black and white instead of emotional terms, you will be able to find solutions that don't hurt each other in the process.
Making up to your ex is truly MAGIC.
Love n' bright blessing,
Everything you see in this world is made up of energy at
their core; we are inter-connected you see...
Thus, for all of us, we will often get all the good or the bad
things coming back to ourselves - it's just the way we handle things that could make things better or worse :)
And now, let us take a look at some of the challenges that we face in a relationship, how we could at least handle it with ease :)
Are you ruining your Relationship?
Whether we realize it or not, most of us would say NO way we are ruining our relationship, right?
While most of us would like to think that our failed relationships were caused by someone else, that isn't necessarily the case. Taking the initiative to consider what you might have done to contribute to the downfall is a
great first step towards actually repairing a relationship. Blame doesn't really help fix a relationship, but taking responsibility for your actions does.
1) Are you always right?
One of the biggest problems in a problem relationship is the idea that one person is right and the other is wrong. Are you the one that always insists that you are right? If so, you might be harming your relationship more than helping it. By trying to create a right and a wrong party, you are increasing the split in your relationship and probably causing more animosity from your partner.
Solution:
The next time you want to point out that you are right about something in an argument or a discussion, stop and take a deep breath at least 3 times. This will slow down your brain and take the focus off the moment at hand. In most cases, you will see that saying that you were right probably isn't going to add to the situation. How would you feel if your partner did the same to you?
2) Are you unable to let go of the past?
Many women have a terrific memory that can retain old incidents for long periods of time. However, when you
constantly bring up old arguments and issues, you aren't really solving the problem that you are having in the
present. You are distracting the discussion from the real issue and hindering any progress.
Solution:
When you feel that you want to bring up something from the past, preface what you are saying with, "I'm not sure if this is relevant or not, but let me say this aloud." This will show how you are thinking about things, but will also admit that you might not be on the correct thought process. After saying what you want to say, then you can say aloud that it's really not relevant, so it's not something that needs discussion.
3) Are you loud when you want to prove your point?
Being louder doesn't necessarily make you right. When you raise your voice, you tend to forget about the words that you are trying to relate or your partner and your partner may just decide to not listen. Whatever you say might be dismissed as too emotional, rather than anything that might help the argument or discussion at hand.
Solution:
There are several things that you can do when you start to feel your volume rise. Many couples like to give each other signals when this is starting to happen, while others find that stopping and breathing a few deep breaths can stop the increased yelling. You can also leave the room for a moment to collect yourself and then try to lower your voice when you return.
4) Do you accuse your partner of not doing things right?
It's really easy to turn every wrongdoing into someone else's fault when you're upset or hurt. However, when you
begin to blame your partner for everything that is wrong, you are not taking responsibility for your own role in the
argument or issue. Accusing someone when you're upset is usually an accusation without merit.
Solution:
It's best to take your focus off of the person that you are talking with and place it more on the issue at hand. When you start to look at arguments in black and white instead of emotional terms, you will be able to find solutions that don't hurt each other in the process.
Making up to your ex is truly MAGIC.
Love n' bright blessing,
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Beautiful Day With Great Value and A New Joke
Hey ya... it's a beautyfull day.
I got a joke for you to brighten up your day....hope you are having a beautiful day or evening wherever you are, on this beautiful, wonderful planet of ours.
Enjoy reading it okay...
The Buttocks
A married couple was in a terrible accident where the man's face was severely burned. The doctor told the husband that they couldn't graft any skin from his body because he was too skinny.
So the wife offered to donate some of he own skin. However, the only skin on her body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from her buttocks.
The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and they requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very sensitive and delicate matter.
After the surgery was completed, everyone was astounded at the man's new face. He looked more handsome than he ever had before! All his friends and relatives just went on and on about his youthful beauty!
One day, he was alone with his wife, and he was overcome with emotion at her sacrifice. He said, 'Dear, I just want to thank you for everything you did for me. How can I possibly repay you?'
'My darling,' she replied, 'I get all the thanks I need….
every time I see your mother kiss you on the cheek.'
I got a joke for you to brighten up your day....hope you are having a beautiful day or evening wherever you are, on this beautiful, wonderful planet of ours.
Enjoy reading it okay...
The Buttocks
A married couple was in a terrible accident where the man's face was severely burned. The doctor told the husband that they couldn't graft any skin from his body because he was too skinny.
So the wife offered to donate some of he own skin. However, the only skin on her body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from her buttocks.
The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and they requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very sensitive and delicate matter.
After the surgery was completed, everyone was astounded at the man's new face. He looked more handsome than he ever had before! All his friends and relatives just went on and on about his youthful beauty!
One day, he was alone with his wife, and he was overcome with emotion at her sacrifice. He said, 'Dear, I just want to thank you for everything you did for me. How can I possibly repay you?'
'My darling,' she replied, 'I get all the thanks I need….
every time I see your mother kiss you on the cheek.'
Monday, October 4, 2010
What Can I do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your ex away further? Is this describing your situation to a tee? Are you asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back" at every turn? Here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship, which is what led you to this article in the first place. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.
Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.
So What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back? Follow this strategy instead.
You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.
During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him.
You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place.
Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don't over do it) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top. And then you will stop asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back".
Give yourself a lil' time and it will help to increase the PASSION and connection with your ex boyfriend.
I understand with your feeling kinda mixed up, it's kinda easy to loose grip on yourself and staying focus is a
lil' hard to achieve but it's not impossible.
So here's a guide that could help to put your mind at ease while working on the DO's and DON'Ts of getting your ex back. There's a video for you to check out: Making up to your ex.
Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship, which is what led you to this article in the first place. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.
Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.
So What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back? Follow this strategy instead.
You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.
During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him.
You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place.
Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don't over do it) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top. And then you will stop asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back".
Give yourself a lil' time and it will help to increase the PASSION and connection with your ex boyfriend.
I understand with your feeling kinda mixed up, it's kinda easy to loose grip on yourself and staying focus is a
lil' hard to achieve but it's not impossible.
So here's a guide that could help to put your mind at ease while working on the DO's and DON'Ts of getting your ex back. There's a video for you to check out: Making up to your ex.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Increasing Passion Could Help
Good day to you!:-)
You know, when something seems wrong in a relationship and we try and try to fix it... but to no avail...
makes us think about the the problems more and more. And we tend to forget about the PASSION that create the bonding between our partner.
So please give a thought about the tips below, it could help you, me, your friends or the people the we love.
See...,
You know, when something seems wrong in a relationship and we try and try to fix it... but to no avail...
makes us think about the the problems more and more. And we tend to forget about the PASSION that create the bonding between our partner.
So please give a thought about the tips below, it could help you, me, your friends or the people the we love.
See...,
You'll fix a relationship or win an ex back faster
if you focus increasing the PASSION and connection in your relationship
before focusing on the PROBLEMS of your relationship.
Here's what it means for you:
If you have problems in your relationship... I mean
big or small, it will almost fix themselves
if there is enough passion in your relationship...BUT... Even the smallest
problems will seem like mountains if there's NO passion.
How to do it?:
A small emotionally charged date will go much farther
healing a relationship...than having a two hour conversation
about why the affair happened.
Now... your situation could be a little different, you'd say... but what ever reasons that strained your relationship...
PASSION n CONNECTION has decreased right under your nose. So you need to get it back up...!
Emotionally charged date are not about dinners and movies. NO... No... No, please that was yesterday.
Get some more dating ideas right here with T.W. JACKSON that could suit your situation to get your ex back.
love ya'll.
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