Counter Intuitive Method

Hey there, hope it's a good day for you to start.

I sure hope you are hangin' tough despite your breakup. You are not alone... many of us experienced it at some point of our lives... but at the same time couples also reunites everyday regardless the situation.

(Even an ex con can get to his ex back... nothing should stop you getting your ex back as well)

Most people find themselves asking "What should they do to get their ex back" following a breakup. They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back. 

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. We(men & women) become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it is only harmful to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.

It is always good to remind you that you cannot force anyone to fall in love with you or fall back in love with you, however you always can influence the one you like to fall for you. The key is influencing.

This is where doing things counter intuitively is highly effective.

The first main strategy to answer the question about "what should you do to get your ex back" is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and forget about recent turmoil in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people. 

Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.

The effect that strategies like this will have, is that it will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex. 

Do you still want to get back together with your ex? Or are you ready to move on? Act accordingly. If you still want to get back together, it might be time to figure out how he/she is feeling about you.

Getting your ex back can truly make you happy.

Now is your chance to be a little more direct when it comes to getting your ex back. You need to play strategically, however. Do not simply beg your ex to get back with you, because this is not a good time to be emotional. 

Instead, what you should be doing is playing things cool with your ex. If you have spent enough time apart, your ex is probably missing you as badly as you are. Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and this is just to show your ex that you are doing fine after the breakup. This will inspire your ex to really rethink things. 

And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be,  now is the time when it will become apparent. Pay attention to the indication of interest that your ex unknowingly show you. Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out what you can do to rekindle old the romance. Just take things slow and play them cool and you should be fine.

Couples Reunite Everyday Under Any Circumstances. Even Ex convicts can get back to their girlfriends and wives, what's stopping you then? You too can win back your ex.

Regards,